Email to the Editor
Dads can be as guilty as moms
Dear Gary,
Being manipulative is not a woman thing or a man thing; bad behavior is found in both sexes.
I have sympathy for anyone "jerked around" in divorce situations.
I read your article "In defense of Alec Baldwin." I am sure that some divorced dads are jerked around and become very frustrated. However, without having a lot more information, one could not know whether or not Alec Baldwin's rampage was in any way justifiable,
as you did point out.
In writing on this topic, it would be helpful to note that being "jerked around" is a two-way street. Many divorced moms and their children suffer greatly from "dads" who
are totally inconsiderate and irresponsible, and worse. The shoe is oft times on the other foot.
Generalizations are truly inappropriate; each situation is different.
Nancy Myers
Martinsburg, West Virginia